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Quote: Hi everyone, I am a new member and just found this interesting juncture of discussion about friendship and marriage with an ex-girl firend of a friend. This issue is not that simple and we can look at this scenario in different ways. Its a situation that brings back memories of a similar situation years back with 2 friends of mine (females) one was not interested in the guy and the other one was - the gentlemen decided the latter was more suitable because she cared and they ended up married with no hard feelings from the first lady. Well I find it similar - just because his friend did not care about this lady it does not mean she should not pursue her future with someone else even it if is his friend. If he was a real friend why would he be upset and end their friendship ? friendship goes both ways and if has no emotional interest in her someone else does. Friendships should be a solid pillar and one must give it the value it deserves if not then it was not a regrettable acquaintanceship to let go off. The former boyfriend should wish his friend happiness with the choice he made. Tell your friend to do the right thing and talk to the ex and tell him his intentions before things advance - - honesty is what should preserve their friendship. Allah bless